Thursday, January 1, 2009

Rules and FAQ's for Subversions

FAQ'S:

What is Subversions all about?
* Subversions is my dream about a sexual utopian paradise set in modern day with the occasional element of fantasy. It's a place where you can come to fulfill any number of different fantasies, within reason. (see rules) It's not a freebie noob sex palace. It's not open to the public. It's somewhat elite, private, and restricted. It's for open-minded adults who seek out a better place to meet and experience sex. It's the palette, the backdrop, the location for adventures of various themes, settings and content. It's a society comprised of free thinkers, artists, and what some would call perverts. It's NOT for drama, grief, hate, fear, violence or intolerance. It's not *just* about BDSM or any other sexual lifestyle/technique/taste in specific- it's
for all forms of sex, shared amongst others openly. It's a place to see and be seen while having pleasure!

How is it different?
* It's not free! By requesting permission to join you will be 'interviewed' briefly for admission. I will strive to provide the most beautiful or interesting locations for your fantasies. It's not limited to specific RP. Although it's primarily for human avatars, who enjoy group sexual situations, who are more discerning in their play. By offering different types of events I hope to bring in various types of players.
Everyone is expected to look and act their best, please see rules. It's not limited to any sexual orientation, so please refrain from getting offended by samesex offers, you can always say no.

Who can get into Subversions?
* If you want in, click the group join request box and i'll contact YOU... that simple. If you can appreciate a private club, you can appreciate this. Membership will be limited and the sim will locked down at 30 people to limit lag during nonevents (yes it's a full prim sim). If you are not tolerant and respectful and abide by every single rule described below, you'll be ejected.

How do you get invited/invite others?
* Click the join group request box, in the sim entrypoint lobby.

What happens there?
* Sexual encounters, parties, orgies, demonstrations, events, and photography sessions mostly. If you want to go shopping or clubbing, go elsewhere. If you are looking for a 'hard alley' experience, by all means please go there (it can be fun). If you're looking for a slave auction, pirate swashbuckling, or other strictly RP'd situation, there are plenty of those to be had (and you can incorporate that in your own RP) in other sims and groups. The focus here is voyeurism, elitism, exhibitionism and appreciation for your surroundings. By
coming here you relinquish any claims of privacy. There are however, secluded areas of the sim where you may get "caught in the act" by anyone's camera at any time. Extreme kink and fetishes are best kept in private IMs to respect others, however anyone easily offended simply shouldn't come. Harassment is forbidden. Anyone, regardless of status, or otherwise, will get kicked out after breaking the rules, and no refunds on monthly fees will be given.


What does it look like?
* That will change every month or so... It's currently a beautiful lodge set on a pristine lake surrounded by mountains, a darker more castlesque home with a dungeon and stables, a special burlesque event venue and a pornographer's skybox studio. It will
change with the seasons and climate. It may be a futuristic city one month, a Moroccan tropical oasis the next. It will never stay the same for too long, and it will always be well built and interesting. Please see my flickr stream for current photos or request a tour by IMing me, Subversive Vavoom.

What cool toys do you have there?
* I could go out and buy every single sexbed there is but... then the script lag would eat us alive. Again, i am not running a freesexnoobfuckpalace...I suggest you use transparent views and lick , i mean click, on stuff to see what i do have. I don't like a bunch of pink and blue balls on my pretty hardwood floors :) I use invisible bases instead to rez them, and you are welcome to rez yours here temporarily until autoreturn sends it back. Please do not rez anything BUT pose stuff, and in aesthetically pleasing areas. The front door is NOT the place to rez your free sexrack. I will add to my collection as time goes. I want to keep it fun and fresh so that you can borrow my stuff but not rely on it constantly either. I would prefer you to not rez anything over 10 prims. If you see someone doing this please politely remind them not to. I have Akaesha's beds, Strokerz, Primal Dreams, Henmations, BitsnBobs, and many of the top animator's balls. I have more toys in this sim than anyone realizes because many of the bases are hidden, so please click stuff!

How does membership work?
* Your membership will be due at the first of every month. To facilitate keeping track of who has paid and who has not, i will simply eject anyone who hasn't paid
on the seventh of every month, until they contact me I will assume they no longer want to play with us. Upon repayment of monthly membership you'll be invited back but will have lost any time where you didn't pay. It is up to YOU to decide if you want to come back, and make the payment. I will not hunt you down and beg for it. The money, that is ;) I will prorate 2k memberships and anything higher. If you are joining in the *last week* of the month, next month's membership is also due at that time.

What if someone bothers me while i'm there?
* Paying members of the 2k plan will have the ability to eject IF A RULE IS BEING BROKEN. Do not abuse this privileged of ejection. (see rules) We are all adults here, and will behave as such. This means that someone will probably offend you at some point. Be tolerant, be
patient, and be friendly or you get no cookies :) This is not Gor, there are no police, and your mother is not watching. If you are bothered by what's being said in open chat, go on busy mode or mute the offenders. I can't stress this enough, we have the ability to control so much in this world, just by clicking a button. I want people to feel comfortable enough to be themselves here and "let it all hang out", not trapped or restricted.

Will there be events? What kind?
* In order to bring small numbers of people together, there will be meet and greets announced weekly. To spark your imagination there will be themed events (not just your average costume parties). To entertain you there will be occasional shows and demonstrations. Artists are welcome to show their erotica here, and exhibitionists are encouraged! We've already had several wonderful performers here too.

What if no one is there, what do i do then?
* Group members can chat in the group. If you are looking to play, you may send a message to the group inviting anyone to come. Sextalk, cyber, RP, and lengthy discussions are discouraged in group chat however, (see rules). The best idea is to come to events, meet others, and keep coming. If you see someone here, they are looking for sex. Kinda takes the guess work out of it, huh?


What if i want a refund?
*You pay by the month, There will be no refunds. Make your decision after being asked to join.

Is it ALL about sex and art?
*Pretty much yes. If you aren't looking for some form of it, don't come. This isn't a library.

How can I participate, contribute?
* Show up, look good, play nice. If you want to contribute further, contact me. Ideas are full of goodness and win.

What is the group for?
* The right to be in a private sim, doing private things, that you won't find elsewhere, while maintaining contact, supporting communication and awareness of events. This is not an option. This gives you build and eject rights on group owned property (the whole sim) for 2k level members. It allows me to block nongroup members during nonevent times.

********RULES*************
Be an adult. This means, literally be an adult with payment history on file, or prove to me otherwise. Act appropriately, don't
openly criticize, don't bring your omgzdrama, and be cool man, be cool. Remember that everyone holds the killswitch and can eject you and you them (except for events). Be on your best behavior until they give you the greenlight to do otherwise. If you whine to me about someone saying bad things to you i'm going to laugh.

Ageplay is a big nono. Permanent shit-list kind of stuff. No child avies, no tinies, no way no how. Being short is not a sin! Being dressed in diapers is!!!

Don't eject someone because they won't fuck you. If you are constantly ejecting, guess what? You are next :)
I trust you, that is why you are HERE, so don't prove me to be wrong about you.

Violence must be limited to consensual private RP and should be kept within the confines of IMs. Sorry but we're not running
another Hard Alley here, although there's nothing wrong with that. We may have a rare kidnap event or similar.

Shouting, lengthy gestures, and ascii spam will not be tolerated. Who thinks that's sexy?

Don't rez stuff other than poseballs or sex furniture in the designated areas, keep it under 10 prims.

Don't do anything that could be considered griefing. If you don't know what griefing is, you shouldn't be here.

Don't harass people but also Don't be shy! IM someone you are interested in and be prepared for possible rejection. Ask for it, offer it, be subtle or be blunt, take it if you can. Don't just stand there with your cock out begging for attention. If someone bugs
you too much you'll be muted. Oh, and, do I really have to say this? Don't ask for money, EVER. If someone pays you for sex, i really don't want to know. People asking for it and using this as a prostitution hub will be shot on sight :) Wallflowers are boring, but voyeurs are welcome unless we're all just looking at each other doing nothing.

Dress code: The only dress code is "sexy human". Because our definition of sexy varies widely, I encourage you to come in
modern day apparel that you wouldn't find in a freebie shop. Lingerie, nudity and fetishwear is OK. Ballgowns and tuxedos are going to just look silly usually. Furry, robotic, or nonhuman avatars are slightly discouraged...However, neko gear and fantasy-wear is fine. Look like a well developed avatar whatever you do....Dress and undress to impress!


YOU MUST AGREE TO EVERY WORD OF THIS TO JOIN.
IF YOU DIDN'T READ IT, YOU'RE FUCKED.
or maybe not so much :)

I reserve the right as the head biotch to add to this list as stuff happens, but it's really quite basic. I'm not trying to kill your joy, i want to amplify the awesome ;)
If this doesn't appeal to you, if you are turned off by any of this, please, do.not.come. I think you'll like it and have loads of fun!